I couldn’t help but smile while reading Lisa Miya-Jervis’ piece, Hold that Nose. Just as she says a large nose is a physical characteristic of her Jewish heritage, the same thing goes for being Polish. I can tell a Polish nose when I see one (in part, because I have one). They’re difficult to miss and I’m glad they’re there. I thought the idea of having “corrective” surgery on her nose would have been a big mistake. Although a large nose is not necessarily desirable in society’s eyes, it’s still part of who you are. In the grand scheme of things, the size of your nose (whether it shows a degree of femininity or acceptance into the American culture) does not matter! You have to take pride in your people and who you are. It seems like, in America, everyone is an immigrant (meaning your ancestors came from somewhere else…no matter how many generations ago). I also found it interesting that Lisa found humor in the stereotypes of Jews (Woody Allen movies). I can find humor in the stereotypes created about my Polish ancestors. I do not let them hinder my self-worth. Sometimes, you just have to ignore all of the billboards, magazines, and TV commercials. You are who you are, so hold your head (and of course your nose) high.
I completely agree with you. I personally believe that it's a person’s flaws that make them truly beautiful. Sure it can be discouraging to constantly see all kinds of ads (whether it is on TV, in a magazine, or on a billboard) with beautiful "perfect" women, but the thing to keep in mind is that many of these ads are brushed to make these women appear perfect. But in person even they have flaws. My boyfriend is not exactly the male model ripped from the page, but he is caring and is always there for me when I need someone to talk to. He does not have washboard abs, is not tall, dark, and handsome (in the classic sense), but I would not change a thing about him. I love his quirks and honestly I love that he accepts me for me. That is better than a perfect 10, who let’s face it is probably so full of himself because he knows he's hot. I feel that if you can overcome the hype about being a perfect ten and you accept you for you, you will be much happier with life!
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